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小幸子以前在報紙和網上專欄上刊登過的作品,172Please respect copyright.PENANAm7f68yAk6c
年代有點久遠,172Please respect copyright.PENANAR1xafcmsgo
因此內容可能不合時宜172Please respect copyright.PENANALYpfG3oBeC
但想發表在這裡做個紀念~172Please respect copyright.PENANAyMxmpfVH36
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「潮語」是指潮流用語,172Please respect copyright.PENANAHD3V1E6tHn
每個年代都會有不同特色的潮語。172Please respect copyright.PENANAZopvHSHFJB
而這年代具代表性的潮語莫過於「屈機」﹑「十卜」等,172Please respect copyright.PENANASfgCgelJrw
由網絡衍生出來,夾雜一點「火星文」味道的潮語。172Please respect copyright.PENANASVeXDO1Y0S
這些帶點玩樂性質的潮語卻在近年開始變質,172Please respect copyright.PENANAgA3eXkjlzC
漸漸出現一堆帶有諷刺性及侮辱性的潮語,172Please respect copyright.PENANA6T0EE8L5Vz
例如「港女」﹑「剩女」﹑「宅男」﹑「90後」等等。172Please respect copyright.PENANA16VE1vZCrP
這些原本語調中性的名詞,172Please respect copyright.PENANAyTocWWowGf
為什麼後來會變成一種負面的標籤呢?
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「港女」換言之是香港女性,172Please respect copyright.PENANAKrpZbHsv2O
而「90後」即是1990年後出生的人,172Please respect copyright.PENANAZyThfeLuDf
明明只是一個中立的簡稱。172Please respect copyright.PENANAqsl9WZHRCg
但現今世代的「港女」卻泛指有公主病﹑拜金的女生,172Please respect copyright.PENANAbZQWGJMXeK
而「90後」就毫無理由地等同於172Please respect copyright.PENANA0DtXtmjJD9
工作不認真﹑沒責任心的一群,172Please respect copyright.PENANA8OYJzbfsVK
其實我每次聽到都覺得匪夷所思,172Please respect copyright.PENANA88ZMUsxFST
即若果我是出生於1990年之後的香港女性居民,172Please respect copyright.PENANApdy0djYMea
所以我一出世,172Please respect copyright.PENANALDxwe26Ajh
不,未出世就已注定172Please respect copyright.PENANAwR0Y7OaQsl
是有公主病﹑拜金﹑工作不認真﹑沒責任心的人?172Please respect copyright.PENANAz91x3f9f3z
那麼世上人人都是風水師,172Please respect copyright.PENANAXeHnTJWdlh
人人都懂得用生辰八字來睇相了。
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聽說是這些族群的大多數有這些特徵,172Please respect copyright.PENANA63VcFsr5iS
所以就用以統稱。172Please respect copyright.PENANAO0v5b8FOBU
我很好奇,發起這些統稱的人,172Please respect copyright.PENANAnXNUB6IB2N
是否已經見過所有香港女子,172Please respect copyright.PENANAcg6aJhdwpV
或者所有出生於90年代後的人?172Please respect copyright.PENANAZtxHXGZYkV
所謂大多數,即最少是多於一半。172Please respect copyright.PENANAR3JwlFMOpv
而性格特質這種東西,172Please respect copyright.PENANAZQg3AJkSoX
是要相處過才會見識到。172Please respect copyright.PENANAyiSi1iJAaw
所謂見識,不只是見過,172Please respect copyright.PENANA3YYcDxwwJQ
還要認識和體會。172Please respect copyright.PENANACyKef0iEt0
我總不相信有人一生認識過100萬個香港女生。
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然而就因為其輕率的一聲「港女」,172Please respect copyright.PENANAntGAdk99dv
及後所有香港女性都像被世人用「家嫂」的眼光去審視:172Please respect copyright.PENANAD66fvMMv3o
夏天穿背心短褲?港女。172Please respect copyright.PENANAc5zUHFYgQ5
要男朋友買了超過一千蚊的禮物?港女。172Please respect copyright.PENANAmeXSacfOfH
約會遲到?港女。172Please respect copyright.PENANA2Xz2FO1094
同樣地,呻一呻辛苦,工作不認真,任性叛逆,172Please respect copyright.PENANALhMHoagHXB
你就是沒責任心,自私易放棄的90後。
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試問一下,172Please respect copyright.PENANA3ZkknETPKi
社會上除了老闆,誰上班是不辛苦?172Please respect copyright.PENANAgC2OD7ROC2
不幸遇上魔頭上司,簡直是痛苦。172Please respect copyright.PENANAYa3Bg7v5lJ
呻一呻有何稀奇?172Please respect copyright.PENANAlTJvadnRmA
上世代的人從來沒呻過?我聽過創自1976年的「半斤八兩」,172Please respect copyright.PENANA7efbXbUOGX
可憐一班「90後」尚未出世呢。172Please respect copyright.PENANAxlTMrEnL4i
工作不認真?172Please respect copyright.PENANAOSpK0g0a80
我相信不少在職人士一定見識過172Please respect copyright.PENANAzE4Z5Lmj2E
只說不做﹑恃老賣老的「老屎忽」。172Please respect copyright.PENANAkum4wzwMBp
世上當真只有90年後出生的人先會呻?172Please respect copyright.PENANAwsjSG4IBZq
先會推卸責任?172Please respect copyright.PENANASYXbbnuKYH
叛逆任性,亦真的只出現在「90後」身上嗎?172Please respect copyright.PENANAgWIp98Zrls
撫心自問,172Please respect copyright.PENANAQZ9LraHMDO
世界上又是不是只有香港女性才會約會遲到,172Please respect copyright.PENANAxOnrCtX6ZM
收超過一千蚊的禮物?
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既是如此,為什麼獨獨只有這些族群才會被惡意標籤?172Please respect copyright.PENANALE87xe3oBp
所有所謂特徵,明明會出現在不同族群和年代的人身上,172Please respect copyright.PENANAHNJDtVkGBR
但現在獨獨只有這一群會被規範會被矯枉過正,172Please respect copyright.PENANAmCtn7pq04Y
再也不敢隨便呻隨便收禮物,172Please respect copyright.PENANAJERBcczuzV
只因他們已經被標籤。172Please respect copyright.PENANAReionoa3qO
就像被一條充滿荊棘的橡皮圈緊緊绑著,172Please respect copyright.PENANAlv4uGOhj30
又像在走一條窄如獨木橋又難行的石春路,172Please respect copyright.PENANAx6wCo8dkLa
就怕稍稍走錯一步都會被世人指點﹑唾罵。 172Please respect copyright.PENANAJvuWc76BLO
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被標籤的族群172Please respect copyright.PENANAIStBLwWUkk
如今只能因大眾的誤解而生活在峡窄的規範中。172Please respect copyright.PENANAJdJYBFf7L0
然而,以我所知,172Please respect copyright.PENANAN18ijcvnb8
現今90後或香港出世的女性都不是複製人,172Please respect copyright.PENANAizqHEnIscJ
所以每個人都還是獨立的個體,172Please respect copyright.PENANAKAdOx4XIi4
行為﹑性格﹑特色都獨一無二,172Please respect copyright.PENANAgMyZUqyV4r
不至於所有/大多數這些族群的人172Please respect copyright.PENANAAhzYKecvGw
就一定/必然會出現這些特徵。172Please respect copyright.PENANAr10dWnWiDp
事實上,172Please respect copyright.PENANAnlp5QwB0gS
是否「90前」﹑「美女」(美國女性)﹑「中女」(中國女性)172Please respect copyright.PENANAFDHrCgcTq6
真的從來沒有出現過被標籤族群所做的行為呢?
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其實,峽窄的生活方式,是源於膚淺的眼光。172Please respect copyright.PENANA6zx41PeSt3
我真心希望這些讓人心生壓力的標籤效應以後能夠慢慢淡化,172Please respect copyright.PENANAcgZT7rIr3V
希望大家能客觀﹑獨立的看待每一個人。172Please respect copyright.PENANAdlXGOMIT62
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小幸子Yukiko172Please respect copyright.PENANAcXfH2bcqQT
文章發表在172Please respect copyright.PENANApqLKRQWHbr
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