Hello everyone! I have a very important question for everyone... can you please give me advice? It pains me to say it, but I really need it right now!

For those of you who don't know, I'm a girl in high school. There's this guy I've liked for a while now, and we are kinda friends. He lives in my development so we go on the same bus. Let's call him... J. 

I'm really close friends with J's 2 best friends. Let's call them M and C. When I told M and C that I liked J, they freaked out and told him. This situation quickly got complicated when J revealed to C that he was initially considering asking me out, but later decided against it. His reasoning was disheartening, as he mentioned concerns about our compatibility and his mother's disapproval of dating. In bafflement, I couldn't help but disagree with his judgment. We're like a black cat and a golden retriever - different in nature yet attracting each other's qualities to create a perfect balance. I firmly believe opposites attract, and the thrill of navigating a relationship's uncertainties is what makes the journey worthwhile. I couldn't help but ponder over his contradictory behavior. On one hand, he talks about defying his mother's rules, but on the other, he hesitates to explore a potential connection with me based on trivial concerns.

"I would totally date her, I mean she's hot, but those reasons are holding me back," were his words, leaving me torn between his conflicting statements. Despite these obstacles, I find myself drawn to him and reluctant to let go of the possibility of us being together. This dilemma has left me in a state of uncertainty, unsure of what steps to take next.

With the gravity of this situation weighing heavily on my heart, I seek guidance and advice from all of you. Your insights and perspectives would be invaluable in helping me navigate this intricate web of emotions. So, I implore you, dear friends, lend me your wisdom and guide me in unraveling the complexities of this heart's dilemma. What course of action should I undertake to untangle the knots of this budding romance?