After the wedding, it finally felt like the long-distance chapter of our lives had ended. No more waiting months to meet, no more video calls that never felt like enough—just the two of us, starting a life together under one roof. It was a strange yet comforting feeling to wake up knowing he was right there beside me, no longer miles away.
Moving into our new home felt surreal. It wasn’t just a house; it was a symbol of all the sacrifices and hard work we had both put in over the years to make this dream come true. The empty rooms soon started filling with memories—our laughter echoing in the hall, the cozy meals we cooked together, and even the small arguments that made us understand each other better.
But the journey wasn’t all smooth. My in-laws had different opinions about me, and it was difficult at times to navigate the unspoken expectations and misunderstandings. I often felt judged or out of place, but through it all, my husband stood by me. He understood my struggles without me having to explain, and he made it his mission to bring me out of those moments of discomfort. Whether it was taking me out for a drive, surprising me with small gestures, or just sitting with me and comforting me, he always reminded me that I wasn’t alone.
Just as I was beginning to adjust to married life, the reality of his job hit me hard. After a few weeks, I realized he would soon have to return to Singapore for work, and the distance we thought we had ended would begin again. The thought of being apart brought back the waves of anxiety I had tried so hard to manage. I didn’t want to return to that lonely routine, so I decided to take a leap of faith. I made a plan to move with him to Singapore.
The process wasn’t easy. Between getting approvals from CIQ, preparing the necessary letters, and securing bus tickets, every step felt like a challenge. Yet, the excitement of starting a new chapter together kept me motivated. Still, beneath the excitement, I couldn’t shake the confusion and fear. Could I really manage living in a new country? Would my anxiety return in a bigger way?
Even as I prepared for the move, questions swirled in my mind. But I knew one thing for certain: I wanted to be with him. That thought alone gave me the strength to push forward, no matter how uncertain the road ahead seemed.
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