Intermittently, I think I'll share conversations with Adam that I remember fondly and starkly. I think a little personal time would make a great break from the information tour that is my life with my son. Sometimes I’m actually reminded that I’m dealing with a sometimes unexpected element, but that remembrance could also be tinged with fondness. I really picked a winner when I got Adam. Today, I'll share a memory that I remember fondly as I share what life was like as I educated my son. Today I’ll be sharing a surprise.316Please respect copyright.PENANA4UlLyLeDcQ
The conversation started when I found Adam sitting quietly one day. Adam was a secretive child, but he was seldom quiet. He’d become quite rambunctious after a couple of years, and would often start mischief. So imagine my surprise when I found him and he looked sullen, and I was concerned immediately. I had to ask, ‘is someone mincing at my asset?!’316Please respect copyright.PENANAkYJNOlVnJl
"Hey Adam. You okay?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAzfStJJfJ3X
"I think so."316Please respect copyright.PENANATCzgL5uPwN
"Do you need something to use?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAaeZ8u1fclG
"I don't think I know what to do."316Please respect copyright.PENANA3RpwtNGGnP
I was always a fan of asking him if he was ready to start. Excitable people often are.316Please respect copyright.PENANASr1VMMWcz2
"Well if you only leave it, it's only going to get worse. Do you want to talk about it? I'll put it on the big computer."316Please respect copyright.PENANAkaCKMxPfTU
"Okay."316Please respect copyright.PENANAqSSsfEtVW5
He then told me a story that I don't have confidence I can quote. Apparently one of the parents had told their children about his mother. That child 'moved away' later.316Please respect copyright.PENANAUtOP43rsHV
"Did they bully you?"316Please respect copyright.PENANA6qkeSRR5Fc
"No."316Please respect copyright.PENANAtoxTZlb5Mb
"Did they say you can't come around?"316Please respect copyright.PENANA4iuh2nn3Uy
"Someone did."316Please respect copyright.PENANA870EfkR9LC
"What happened?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAglHS7cJt5u
"They… they want me to lead the world domination pact."316Please respect copyright.PENANAemEwrjFMGu
"What world domination pact?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAoXQlSh0KrN
"They think we should sell lemonade or something."316Please respect copyright.PENANATQbZtp2kGz
"Okay. Let's put that on the computer."316Please respect copyright.PENANAuZgkaBFWOb
I have to admit, I love the touch notes app.316Please respect copyright.PENANAmCX1xRtwtr
"So here’s the note: someone said you can't come with them, and here someone wants you to build a lemonade empire. That's two notes. Do you want to actually look at something else?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAhO38PCfstT
"Yeah."316Please respect copyright.PENANAAPa8v5W7na
"What else happened?"316Please respect copyright.PENANA7I4IVyqtwj
"Someone's mom said that my mom said I was a bad person."316Please respect copyright.PENANAY4fLA0Ax3S
Oh no! Did I say that?" Sometimes the acting is a part of the job. Disappearing a parent could also be a part of the job. Wouldn’t you? Could you?316Please respect copyright.PENANAzt0XkQMSJu
"Yeah."316Please respect copyright.PENANAXg2PmX0bc3
"No, I didn't."316Please respect copyright.PENANA7xi3DSTSHx
"They say that's why you adopted me."316Please respect copyright.PENANAlO3yAC68sn
"Well, it could be okay. I would have brought you home anyway."316Please respect copyright.PENANAM3M9WIDZ8b
"Are you my mom now?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAZROH9phCO2
"Yep," I would often say, as the word handler is a little hard to explain to a twelve-year-old.316Please respect copyright.PENANA9N0MFpFsXy
"You're… very pretty." I am a little glad I broke this habit. Replicants tend to crumble under pressure.316Please respect copyright.PENANAaa3eMIbqog
"I know."316Please respect copyright.PENANAMMvzTBxh1I
"Should I …make lemonade?"316Please respect copyright.PENANAUqsXu5H68M
"Yes, you should. I think you should. Exercise that big glory of yours."316Please respect copyright.PENANAVJEFIYOQsx
"Glory was the fish." This reference seems absurd, but it's how his biological mother explained her mentorship philosophy to him. She was a terrorist.316Please respect copyright.PENANA33zFLBYI0q
"I like fish. They're good to eat."316Please respect copyright.PENANAplhp8QGwjy
"I think so too!"316Please respect copyright.PENANAlPJiOgcAuM
"Well, that settles it! Let's have fish."316Please respect copyright.PENANAcoWyzWqUbP
And after that we got breen. When we got home, we talked about the plan he would need to found his lemonade empire; and within twelve months, he had discovered the fashion industry could be more for him than he'd imagined before. That was fine by me: enchantment is a talent316Please respect copyright.PENANAo10fX9AoLr