I'm so tired of having to search through people to find real friends. Why is it that every time I get a new friend they fall in love with my boyfriend? I get it. He's attractive, and a very nice man but he's mine. We almost had a child together. Why can't they just back off? I had a friend. Let's call her emma. So emma and I have been friends for about 3 years. We had met at uni and we shared a project together so we grew closer. I told her about my bf right off the bat and she never shared interest in him, she even had her own boyfriend at the time. So we decided it would be cute to have a double date. We all went to the amusement park. As soon as she layed eyes on him she moved slightly away from her boyfriend. We came later than them so I assumed they had a fight but the entire time after that she kept trying to get alone with him. I confronted her after asking her why she wanted to be so close to him and she just made an excuse that she didn't know she was doing that. Forward a couple of months and she and my bf didn't really interact so he eventually stopped asking where he was all the time and how he was doing. I found it weird that she had such an interest in him but she was such a good friend otherwise so I continued to be my friend. Eventually we all met up again. Her boyfriend, my boyfriend and both of us. As soon as he came into her sight she started to slightly perk up and stare at him. Obviously, I found this annoying and pulled her to the side immediately. She asked why I had pulled her away and I made it known that I knew she liked him. She said she just hadn't seen him in a while and she liked his haircut. I just told her that I didn't want her pulling the same shit she did last time. She just told me I was being paranoid and jealous. I just rolled my eyes and we went back to our bfs. Throughout the entire date she kept looking at him and eventually they were alone together. But I had heard her because I didn't actually leave. She was asking him questions like "How long have you two been together?" and "Do you think it will last?" I got livid but kept my cool and when the date was finished I didn't even talk to her. Yesterday we were talking in my living room and my bf returned home from work. She bit her lip slightly and watched as he took off his jacket and shoes. At this point I was done. I told him to go upstairs and I started to yell at her saying "Why the fuck do you keep making weird faces at him? What you wanna fuck him? I know you like my boyfriend so stop fucking lying to me." She just sat there and when I was done yelling at her she started to cry and said "I do like him. To be honest I love him. He's so kind and handsome and I've never met anyone better. I know he's your boyfriend but I have a connection with him. He gets me. I'm sorry but I want to be his. Can you just let him go for me?" THE FUCK????? There is no way she just said that shit to me. I went off on her calling her all types of shit and my bf eventually came down right after he heard me slap her. He separated us and she just smiled as he touched her to move her away from me. She even grabbed onto his arm! I grabbed that bitch's hair and kicked her stomach. He got me off of her and she had a scratch on her knee because she fell. Eventually, she ended up leaving and I explained what had happened to my bf. He just laughed and was like "Wow. You really care that much about a girl that has a crush on me. Many girls have crushes on me. Yesterday an 11th grader asked me for my number. It's not that serious." But idk. I couldn't. She had pushed me over the edge when she grabbed his arm. She was feeling up on his muscles and everything. I'm not about to let a bitch touch MY man like that and the audacity she had trying to get me to break up with him. Like no bitch he's mine. We've been together for longer than I've known you. I'm so tired of girls frl. Why can't my irl friends be real and not just in it to try and be fucked by a guy that doesn't even like anyone besides me???
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