At many times, I had to follow my parents' wishes, and if I didn't listen to them, I was considered disobedient. My family wanted me to have a smooth life, but life isn't so perfect. They prevented me from doing things that might not be good for me, but they never gave me the chance to understand and try things on my own.
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Being obedient didn't serve me well in my life. I became a person who couldn't express my opinions and had no stance of my own. Since childhood, I wasn't allowed to express myself, and no one would listen to what I wanted to say. I was expected to be quiet and obedient, and when I grew up, they blamed me for being that way.
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Why did I seem to lack opinions? Why was I so quiet? Why did I not know how to communicate with others? Wow! They even asked me back? Don't think that being obedient is always a good thing for children. The more compliant a person is, the more dependent they become on others. It's scary to realize that the educational methods I received were wrong only after growing up.
I used to force myself to be a very obedient person, so recently they think I've changed, but I just can't take it anymore and want to express my own opinions. They want a puppet who just listens to them. Being too obedient and always saying yes has suppressed my own thoughts and ideas.
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Only listening and obeying won't help me survive in society, and it's very painful. Especially after starting to work, I realized that my previous education had problems. Even my clothing and appearance had to meet their standards, and they never cared about whether I liked it or not. They arranged many things for me and even wanted to control some of my behaviors. As I grew up, more and more problems arose.
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