I just wrote and published a poem to add on to one of my collections called "Bolding the Line". I suppose this is my explanation of that poem.965Please respect copyright.PENANANdTXZcxu1S
First, a bit of backstory. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAz45Mo64ZxZ
My family is divided by one thing: religion. On one side, there are the religious members, good people undoubtedly, who not once have tried to force down their beliefs into another's throat, not in my presence, nor have said anything prejudice or hateful about those who do not follow their beliefs. On the other side, there are those who are against religion, most of whom I'ven't personally met, but those I have were still good people. They had their reasons for not believing, and I respected that. We were family after all. We have to love each other, even if we do not agree. That's how it's always been, minding our own business, being respectful, and the children of the family all friends.965Please respect copyright.PENANAoxM8ArZYiZ
Things weren't the best, but they were good enough.965Please respect copyright.PENANAMkJD5zYzhK
Then suddenly, those who went off the radar entirely suddenly come back, and that line of division is darkened. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAWXg5say2vC
Rumors spread, ideas are lodged into minds. The line darkens. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAgaBoj4QshI
Personally, I do not pay attention because, as I have said, I do not know most of the people on the other side, mostly due to distance in where they live and where I live. 965Please respect copyright.PENANA6kf2PDIyKP
Then, tragedy strikes.965Please respect copyright.PENANAqCmfEogU2B
This is where the poem comes into play.965Please respect copyright.PENANA1t9F47wBfb
For reasons of protection, I will not be using real names. 965Please respect copyright.PENANA1zhXp7MkRL
Some weeks ago, my grandma informed us that her brother -- my great uncle -- had a stroke, and just yesterday, she told us that he had gone blind as a result. Everyone comes to the conclusion that he will not last long, and even he has said that he has given up hope. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAKeCXF0Umv7
That's when my mom -- bless her heart -- decided that we should try and get him cross-country to see some of his family before he is gone. She tells my grandma this; grandma's on board. My dad (who is on the other side) is supportive and helps plan the route. Then my mom tells my aunt. 965Please respect copyright.PENANApXgCGEhYuS
She can't go because she has to pay rent next week. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAHnMarrwE5z
Next week is her birthday. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAoRkBQl8yU0
She's always been selfish, and while it hurts, it was expected. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAfAWyDC2sfn
The line darkens. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAEEHr0Nhnot
Then, on Facebook, there's a post, a correspondence by my great uncle's own son and my aunt. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAZ29ORKP71E
I will not say it word-for-word, but it was not an expression of grief over the dying old man. More of it was about bashing on my grandma for "not caring", "not keeping in contact with her own brother because their heathens". That she didn't "give an f..." 965Please respect copyright.PENANAxsqQB7BmAL
I'm sorry, but... what the fuck?965Please respect copyright.PENANALCl7HEh3yZ
The man's dying. Who gives a damn about religion? The religious ones aren't even talking about that. They just want to make sure he goes happily, gets to see his family. Yet all you think about is bashing on my grandma because of it?965Please respect copyright.PENANAaJSA5a7oFT
It was my grandma who bothered to tell us of his ailment, who wanted to do something, who's currently canceling a CAT scan to go on the long trip with her brother. She's stressing like hell over it. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAf0qdMEV7vM
And you dare think that just because she's religious and her brother isn't that she doesn't keep in contact?965Please respect copyright.PENANAvYKYdcZHju
Things were fine. Then lies are ingrained into the mind, and suddenly, the family doesn't just have a line, but they acknowledge it. And hell, there's nothing worse than acknowledging differences and divisions. 965Please respect copyright.PENANALfmshPtN2L
Now, I don't have my aunt or my cousin. My moms done dealing with all the stress and lies. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAJ9jCR5nYNn
And I don't blame her.965Please respect copyright.PENANARiYi5GCbzR
Some might argue it's religion that causes all these problems. Yes, it does cause problems, but it's so much more than that. It's a lack of respect. You don't approve of something? That's fine. That doesn't mean you can just tear rifts into the family. A lack of respect brings about hate. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAR1MPVC5wBZ
This is true with everything.965Please respect copyright.PENANAN2bM9W0Cm0
My message: respect everyone, despite varied beliefs, despite skin or sexuality or anything else. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAMEoAsBHuVp
Maybe that's idealistic, but it's a lesson I live by. 965Please respect copyright.PENANAVfEGiesRrG