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究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?13Please respect copyright.PENANAqgARJXPLbp
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,13Please respect copyright.PENANA1PikAQYpAg
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,13Please respect copyright.PENANAKZ9DPNyBFL
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,13Please respect copyright.PENANAsV8OR18ExE
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」13Please respect copyright.PENANAPTaMuLVdjU
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這本新作,13Please respect copyright.PENANAtiadrAx3m6
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,13Please respect copyright.PENANAc4RDXbYmbD
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,13Please respect copyright.PENANA7b7groVXsc
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。13Please respect copyright.PENANALYhvcGhCIV
這個情況要成立的前提,13Please respect copyright.PENANA52mwkJPBNd
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,13Please respect copyright.PENANADpCprhZKVD
作者無提及的是,13Please respect copyright.PENANARf46SulzWT
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,13Please respect copyright.PENANAznRDCq14m0
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,13Please respect copyright.PENANAVPsrP9hL2A
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。13Please respect copyright.PENANAnEBYo8cgED
痛苦的根源,13Please respect copyright.PENANAGINDUlLorl
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,13Please respect copyright.PENANAat1uckl7wu
即「因了解而分開」,13Please respect copyright.PENANAlnkXbxFzXU
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,13Please respect copyright.PENANAPcGQbHis3W
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,13Please respect copyright.PENANApnrWFGhZRL
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,13Please respect copyright.PENANAOOTTISNUY0
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。13Please respect copyright.PENANAGlP42Gsh3T
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若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,13Please respect copyright.PENANAkaj5xD9TNy
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,13Please respect copyright.PENANAnApRoBjn3X
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,13Please respect copyright.PENANAFyD3Ci6lbi
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,13Please respect copyright.PENANASsrQF7i0an
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。13Please respect copyright.PENANATHs16mBUDK
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有人話,13Please respect copyright.PENANAgtOc7hzfvf
人到了一定年紀後會發現,13Please respect copyright.PENANAslK6lgp0Ux
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,13Please respect copyright.PENANAEZibIDoN5a
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。13Please respect copyright.PENANAt8idBmUIyt
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,13Please respect copyright.PENANAStAWACVoQE
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,13Please respect copyright.PENANAPCxxxwNlL9
原來是南轅北轍。13Please respect copyright.PENANAthDPt5HIUK
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,13Please respect copyright.PENANADKlAE0x5yC
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,13Please respect copyright.PENANANdDeUd5ob5
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,13Please respect copyright.PENANAGuv9vIgg72
最終死在沼澤裡。13Please respect copyright.PENANA5tmZM6Xj7l
讀者們,13Please respect copyright.PENANALylWDDCcWy
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,13Please respect copyright.PENANAu4Q8IBtFm2
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,13Please respect copyright.PENANAxMOjqsWQUF
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》13Please respect copyright.PENANAJVp31CMgke
戀愛心理,第七回。13Please respect copyright.PENANAV96aT2IGn8