12Please respect copyright.PENANAQ8Xm3CP1dn
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?12Please respect copyright.PENANAKDDApD0ojL
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,12Please respect copyright.PENANAo6sCCCGeD3
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,12Please respect copyright.PENANAzaL1wEs27Y
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,12Please respect copyright.PENANAKsO7cCBuAB
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」12Please respect copyright.PENANAURiA7Ivo6l
12Please respect copyright.PENANA0eKUcR1ZOJ
這本新作,12Please respect copyright.PENANAOF1YExUiwl
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,12Please respect copyright.PENANA5s9vV5tTnm
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,12Please respect copyright.PENANA2wSQesBQLQ
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。12Please respect copyright.PENANAAfMt4BtNad
這個情況要成立的前提,12Please respect copyright.PENANAqxpW9TenHJ
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,12Please respect copyright.PENANAHdNzu7RPBc
作者無提及的是,12Please respect copyright.PENANAuEtwea1L1r
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,12Please respect copyright.PENANASm8P9i4JFP
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,12Please respect copyright.PENANAjmY5ZkHDtN
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。12Please respect copyright.PENANAGzCdLl12W2
痛苦的根源,12Please respect copyright.PENANASasWKnymK8
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,12Please respect copyright.PENANASKN02zeYWh
即「因了解而分開」,12Please respect copyright.PENANALvDpUxSAO8
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,12Please respect copyright.PENANAKQ4M686gXO
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,12Please respect copyright.PENANATtXaqpUuOo
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,12Please respect copyright.PENANAbJ6nlAeh0a
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。12Please respect copyright.PENANA0iQqWlLhap
12Please respect copyright.PENANASQPOb6X95g
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,12Please respect copyright.PENANA3uKYgSlfHP
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,12Please respect copyright.PENANASnTJBNp1YB
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,12Please respect copyright.PENANA1oooua7pWF
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,12Please respect copyright.PENANAhdx0CcjOwO
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。12Please respect copyright.PENANAtDbGRXN6lD
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有人話,12Please respect copyright.PENANAB3h8jYhxEn
人到了一定年紀後會發現,12Please respect copyright.PENANAZd1MiBVkpi
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,12Please respect copyright.PENANAoxNpJso0FE
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。12Please respect copyright.PENANA6FrUD50nMy
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,12Please respect copyright.PENANADmI1BH0J05
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,12Please respect copyright.PENANA0SaSzcrsWD
原來是南轅北轍。12Please respect copyright.PENANAakD0gEF0BW
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,12Please respect copyright.PENANAmhQYZlLGMQ
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,12Please respect copyright.PENANAU6wkvWSOMY
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,12Please respect copyright.PENANABbqhJiUKgi
最終死在沼澤裡。12Please respect copyright.PENANAQ7xG1uiwjw
讀者們,12Please respect copyright.PENANAiul6ARAdMO
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,12Please respect copyright.PENANAb8jXjeiuEf
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,12Please respect copyright.PENANAj0szKTucdz
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》12Please respect copyright.PENANAyLZnSloBTN
戀愛心理,第七回。12Please respect copyright.PENANAtsKfJSX2mz