臨近萬聖節的那段時期,除了Cathrine之外,我還在Bumble上match上另一個女生——Lia,真是一個既冷門又有趣的英文名字。(我當然懂得這個字怎麼念,只要把「li」和「a」音斬開來念就不難。漢化音是:「里亞」)394Please respect copyright.PENANAVCHef1mrCg
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Lia:有冇興趣同我一齊女裝出街呀?😍394Please respect copyright.PENANA0bpTSHppuq
Lia:同我一齊著lolita服394Please respect copyright.PENANAR1KtCbCoAF
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依Bumble上的老規矩,即使match了還要等到女方主動發起開場白,才能展開聊天室。394Please respect copyright.PENANAISJSeZdECg
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Bumble似乎比起一般的交友app顯得更加女權主義,在這種機制下,什至有人形容:只有女生才有權選擇。394Please respect copyright.PENANAvUD90Ea76k
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不過這對我這個生理上是男生的人來講,絲毫不影響;我完全不把它當成一回事。394Please respect copyright.PENANAEfUVegg2Zr
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這個什麼「等待女方主動發起開場白」的機制,我可反而有一點高傲和滿足感。394Please respect copyright.PENANAGhHl7YHe61
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每當女生主動讚美著我的女裝打扮時,心裡不禁自喜:好耶,又有人欣喜這份藝術了!394Please respect copyright.PENANASFsvAOGARL
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使用交友app久了,我很清楚自己相對於一般的男生,我說只是相對而已,是不需要動腦筋去想說話,在萬中無一的雄性競爭者之中,討好女生。394Please respect copyright.PENANAivzk8lIQMs
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因為我知道自己的女裝打扮照,早就引起人的好奇心。人一旦對你有了好奇心,即使對你完全無視他,他也會主動找上你。394Please respect copyright.PENANAlIkxxLf7Zi
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我:我係大姐姐嚟囉wor😂394Please respect copyright.PENANAt6I2BqhFC7
我:我太高,carry唔起lolita😂394Please respect copyright.PENANANOmBHc0k26
我:你有真係有lolita服?394Please respect copyright.PENANA3fBLP5HgEr
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Lia:係呀,不過最近想買下新衫。394Please respect copyright.PENANA73mTM3NIdE
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一如既往,每當match上女生之後,都離不開談論雙方的興趣、學業、工作等等,還有⋯⋯生活瑣事。394Please respect copyright.PENANAO0KZfOrDMI
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我:你哋BU係咪好摺㗎?394Please respect copyright.PENANAVNmo0vTWIS
我:我聽講BU有耶蘇睇住,玩嘅風氣正經啲394Please respect copyright.PENANAU0UBMsOPZe
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Lia:邊會摺呀?394Please respect copyright.PENANAY050TFlXnz
Lia:不知勁癲394Please respect copyright.PENANAaO4kDBIps3
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我:就嚟萬聖節,我間Hall攪鬼屋event,我去咗幫手394Please respect copyright.PENANArBC04ul8hU
我:拿,send張合照比你睇下先394Please respect copyright.PENANAaCt8s90YNH
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10月29日,我成為了hall 4鬼屋的工作人員,那晚我打扮成一個女護士,相片中的我是身穿一套白色的護士服,衣服上還有些染血,我還把眼睛打扮得像是腫了起來,節日氣氛可謂十足。394Please respect copyright.PENANAEYYnQUWl2J
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Lia:你又真係扮得勁似女仔wor😂394Please respect copyright.PENANAKsC4Cn0wNk
Lia:個look係幾正,不過你個妝有啲唔係好襯到你套衫。394Please respect copyright.PENANAhh83EbbtbZ
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我:其實Halloween個妝係好易攪,隨便整個樣就好嚇人😂394Please respect copyright.PENANA2kIa4AwH1a
我:我都仲有套女祭司服,想正日攞嚟著。394Please respect copyright.PENANAg6qqCg9Ar9
我:到時我會認真返化妝🙈394Please respect copyright.PENANAW1e4KS03l4
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整體來講,Lia的回覆速度蠻快的,她是個十分健談的人,感覺她在女生之中,也算是數一數二大方的人,百無禁忌,什麼話題都不忌諱。394Please respect copyright.PENANAstyO6vpKgb
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大概就是這樣談了一個星期,好了,差不多是時候該約她出來了。394Please respect copyright.PENANAYNOqDTynHZ
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我:今個星期有冇時間出嚟食嘢?394Please respect copyright.PENANA1PFC1aZ0LX
我:可以去cafe店。394Please respect copyright.PENANAYoJs3muS57
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Lia:好呀,今個星期幾?394Please respect copyright.PENANAamDPxSY3eb
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我:星期五啦。394Please respect copyright.PENANAcGiZfpC8nY
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她答應得蠻爽快,如是這樣過了幾天,就在正日前的兩天,我再確認一次。394Please respect copyright.PENANAVWYYMHL7NZ
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我:後日6點ok嗎?394Please respect copyright.PENANAYnMTym2Iiy
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Lia:不如再改下個星期啦,我要OT。394Please respect copyright.PENANAY9HI1Ieyrk
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所以說,安排在愈遠時間的約會,不確定性也愈大。394Please respect copyright.PENANAOBwWOlfdhA
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尤其是網上交友,你必須打鐵趁熱,盡快為約會作鋪墊,一旦這名為「新鮮感」的熱鐵冷下了,就再很難令對方拿出熱情來見你。394Please respect copyright.PENANALRAmd5ctOv
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為防一拖再拖,不了了之,我拋下這句:「咁再過兩日又如何?星期日你都day off啦」394Please respect copyright.PENANATE1471L1yR