第二早，我們又繼續聊。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcThOgapRyY
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxeLRTMFOFe
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLucs5I0Ta2
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjBBNuPrnm2
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpeIlKfnaFB
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVyouUgs17O
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡh8YXXqAlL5
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我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPdxF02khYG
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRdqvGdNTw5
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK9yLfGvzRy
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡubtgem3ARF
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX6ZpjmeMvc
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對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjYc9DpWwMO
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡF7rcN801GY
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNJAvBPwFwB
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我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdUCYSjc3kR
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Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8xGdhs3BsJ
Annie：不過我不敢苟同492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡANzioZurqO
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhLSGxWUiPR
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ24VwuunYPn
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡw5YFoDfCi5
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVKloaHr5rb
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡycl8l3bpWn
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSB94rlSEE4
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVDDeTx1TSh
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJtSQpvO7yJ
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡv2iDhgMWio
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3io99R1dDc
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4fhskwWwHs
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOVfGGSltFo
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2CBEp8dMmO
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOoVX1sPFbM
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFyJocs9Czw
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡww48L2yoZU
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本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡycbWkI3iG1
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzL9mQII5x0
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我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLdhdhRxRg4
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我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyyMwnMlgz7
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唉，我都知來不及了。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡraBu0VcBf5
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Annie：下？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ0QUYxNNo8
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5ZVitpbVN9
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPDtweecmty
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「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8nPedul364
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzkyVzMKhne
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOPhodRujhy
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRBLlH6ehNw
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突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMh72DTUfy6
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啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDNVoq4ijq9
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啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGw0a9BKXXK
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啊，我做人不用你教！！！！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3UOCf8rWE8
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtJo1g0opp6
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3V8XqcQNWK
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcAnWPMFUb9
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPCs5kTdFhE
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憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ45wEY5w0Sb
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiDuMluRsNm
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我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcElFTYPi2I
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd3J1oJlTO6
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡujQrGbNOxZ
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡV7lFaRGHHM
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOKkDKhwJ85
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd323nrpsfP
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ44xkWxgXm
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaNpH2NT8hJ
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9DHuvE1DDR
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWAdkt3dYFy
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我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9xr5qxi4TD
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1rmI9j19x7
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxoepUKb50V
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTSrtlYwgIa
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl0tElbIi5g
（陰陰嘴笑）492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlXoYKt9ISe
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcoALpyQ91V
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKivaxjeWXx
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjojAKqycdm
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我：屌佢老味！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWv5m8fED9l
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdZG75ew2VE
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡesjpm2Sf0j
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAcDKkMbRSV
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlrdrXDiIoK
（微笑地說）492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiHkxeGUA9t
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWLJprEuDJP
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡF6hgXTUgjm
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Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOLPiVqFoZ0
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi0KiCbej3D
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我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkJNj2tVbct
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPlAaMzAS6N
（暗笑一聲）492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡywF7fha7TO
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkHM9gi6wsi
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBsL8hOZLeB
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經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlHAMZCXyQ1
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡja6Q7NFTvf
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYjNoE3Sw7e
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJOuiw7iDvm
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡebLZWGStbQ
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjlZdZg3CyN
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其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2Qw36ysLWC
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoR83o0rhFe
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡT4ynpW9N3g
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6i0STcZXYY
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3i5xRhwkr1
492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡizvPujZdIu
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlfMnEinzEd
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2YodrizYXt
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再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4xkVcHZRhw
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在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。492Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2zbh6kfGHy
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好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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