One of the most annoying things to me as a person is when someone blames everything wrong in their life, or in a certain situation, on someone else. 625Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYN8fsAT0Lb
Not that the person being blamed isn't at fault, but normally the blamer is at fault as well. 625Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxDhDnH3NAg
Say you and a friend of yours aren't speaking as much as you used to. She blames you, and honestly you've just decided you don't really care that she blames you, it's more her fault. Yes, you are at fault for not picking up the phone and calling or trying to make plans. But, hey, the phone works both ways, he/she is to blame just as much.
Or, say you and you're boyfriend/girlfriend are having a rough time and you both will not approach and discuss the problem at hand that is causing this rough patch, yet you're both blaming each other. In all reality, you're both to blame.
A problem can not be solved without first admitting that there is one, be it friendship or romantic relationship.
Blame shifting does not solve an issue, it just creates another issue.625Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdJWo0Y5Zxu
In my opinion you should question yourself as to why you haven't made a move in a situation rather than blaming the other for not making a move. 625Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxseoyM3HBJ
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