Yeah I know I've already made a post about this (the insecurities part anyways) But I think it's important to talk about insecurities on sites as well. I feel like at least around me they aren't normalised enough. Instead of understanding stuff like that people around me like to pick on them and make me feel like shit about them. Soooo imma say some thoughts about my own insecurities recently. I guess trigger warnings for gaining weight? Sorry I don’t really know what to call it.415Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡsF5eAItUgq
Recently...I've been gaining weight. I feel like shit about it honestly. I don't know if it's just a mental thing but I feel like I'm going back to some REALLY bad eating habits I used to have. Like skipping meals and forcing myself to eat less. Or I start feeling guilty about eating sweets and unhealthy stuff. It's something I'm personally working on not doing but I can't help it. People making comments don't really help either. Like man...I know shut up. But then I also feel like shit when people make comments about me being "skinny". Can we just normalise making no comments on someone's body shape? 415Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ96uMzXUzdU
Skin and pimples too. My face has just broken out in pimples. No matter how many I pop or how much facewash I use they keep appearing. It’s annoying but meh what can you do. I just feel really bad when I look at myself in the mirror.
I think insecurities come from others. When people make comments on our appearance or when we compare our selves to others. That’s my opinion anyways.
okay to end this bit. It’s normal to have them…most of us do! No one’s perfect after all.
Also I’m not looking for comments that are like.. NOO you look great blah blah blah. I’m not looking for comfort about my insecurities just to have conversations surrounding them.
okay question bit or well whatever. I’ve been thinking about the way I look and how I would like to look. It kinda has to do with gender…I’ve been thinking about like…if I like being called a girl. Like some days I do some days I feel all weird about it. Like I would perfer to look more like a guy? Argh I’m so confused. Like most days it’s like yeah I’m happy being a girl and being called a girl then other days it’s like…just no and I feel all weird.
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