電影:《深刻入骨(To the bone)》
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有些傷害,刻骨入深,可能有心,可能無意,可能有時是我們太敏感⋯⋯
畢竟這世界很壞
這世界也很美
人夾於其中,無法無知無覺
繼而無地自處
在電影後段,醫生和女主有這麼一番對話——
Dr.: There's no point or at least, big picture, we don't get to know what it is. Why we live, why Megan lost the baby, why that girl killed herself... I can't reassure you. This idea you've that there's a way to be safe it's childish and cowardly.323Please respect copyright.PENANAlKi3ye7Tyl
(意義根本不存在,或者至少我們無法知道何謂實質意義。我們為何而生?Megan為何流產?那女孩為何自殺?⋯⋯我沒辦法安慰你。你兒得有能讓自己安全的辦法,這種想法可是幼稚且懦弱。)
Eli: I know I messed up, but you're supposed to teach me how not to be.323Please respect copyright.PENANA3571rJgmo4
(我知道自己一團糟,但你理應教我如何恢復正常!)
Dr: You know how. Stop waiting for life to be easy. Stop hoping for somebody to save you. You don't need another person lying to you. Things don't all add up. But you're resilient. Face some hard facts and you could have an incredible life.323Please respect copyright.PENANA2qn9VqzMMh
(你知道怎麼做。別再等著人生變得輕鬆,別再期待別人來救你,你不需要另一個人說謊騙你。不是每件事都會合理。但你很堅強,只要勇敢面對殘酷事實,你就感擁有精彩人生。)
常說:「若到最後你也不愛自己,無人可以為你再做更多,救你於苦海。」323Please respect copyright.PENANAOaPDRo8eqi
講多容易?323Please respect copyright.PENANA1x4hb52Vl1
但其實更多時,面對的不是一沉不起,而是浮浮沉沉323Please respect copyright.PENANA04m3IrX6EK
你知道要愛自己,你知道別人為你眼前一亮,然而你卻始終看不見自己的優點,不知道自己何以值得那些關愛⋯⋯323Please respect copyright.PENANARedpZguj4i
近年好多「花時間同童年和解」、「花時間同原生家庭和解」的書本或說法,但323Please respect copyright.PENANAIL0tVFjq5e
其實講到底,都在說一件事323Please respect copyright.PENANA9fPYwMBr0v
人生在世,最吃力是費心力原諒自己,學懂別苛責自己,323Please respect copyright.PENANAVueHiCiEdA
從而放過自己323Please respect copyright.PENANAYoKAWMAYY8
立地而處