第三天夜裡，趙叔實在扛不住了，他將兒子直接背到了我家，說情況已經嚴重了。
我看了看孩子，肩頭上的三把陽火只剩下一把了，而且忽閃忽滅，隨時都有熄滅的可能！
“叔啊，你們這是在害你兒子啊！怎麼到現在才想明白呢？”
這孩子基本上已經算是一具屍體了。
這三天裡，他們兩口子帶著本就虛弱的兒子走遍了大小醫院，就是想用醫療的手段救孩子，所以耽擱了很多寶貴的時間。
兩口子眼嗆著孩子快要扛不住了，才想起來將他拉到我家了！
「楠兒，叔給你跪下，救我兒一命，而且千萬不要舉報他啊！”
兒子已經不行了，他們還是沒有改變自己的思想。
“叔，如果你的兒子被人害死了，一直找不到兇手，你會如何？”
一句話，直接將趙叔給問住了。
“如果你知道兇手是誰，你又會如何？”
我再次追問。
“我會讓他為我兒子償命！”
趙叔這話說出來的時候，就知道今天這件事已經有結局了。
自己的孩子是孩子，別人家的孩子就不是孩子了嗎？
那個死去的人屍骨未寒，不知道家裡人會多悲傷！
“別人家的人我不管，我也管不了，我只知道管好我家的孩子就行！”
我的話已經說的很明白了，趙叔還是不能改變自己頑固不化的想法。
「叔，不是我不幫你，你把你家孩子帶走吧，到時候下葬的時候，我爭取讓他有一俱全屍！”
鬼喊屍這件事很是邪乎，當時我鑽研很長一段時間才得知破解方法。
就是讓害人得到應有的懲罰，隨後我去勸導喊屍的鬼，然後爭取得到和解的機會，這件事情就算是解決了。
我不相信這個世界上還有別的辦法，可以化解鬼喊屍！
本來很簡單的一件事情，非要讓他們兩口子搞得特別的複雜。
我不明白，究竟是我沒有說清楚，還是他們撞南牆不知道轉彎！
父親也站了出來，試圖勸導他們兩口子做出改變，但是沒有起到任何的效果。
我與父親很是崩潰，但又沒有任何辦法，他們兩口子真的把孩子背回去了！
臨走之前還說了一句話：
「你們父子倆真不是個東西，見死不救，會遭報應的！」
直到現在，他們還沒有意識到自己的過錯，不在自己身上找問題，將責任全部推給了我們父子兩個。
有句古話說的好，有其父必有其子，他兒子之所以逃逸，完全遺傳了他父親的性格！
我與父親就這樣，眼睜睜看著他們消失在無盡的黑夜之中，那一刻，我的心裡都在滴血，耳邊還傳來了枉死鬼的聲音：
“謝謝~~”
看起來不只一隻鬼的聲音！
興許是我過於疲憊，聽錯了吧～
死在孩子手上的人，當天夜裡帶走了趙叔的孩子。
凌晨的時候，他們兩口子的哭喊聲響徹了整個村莊。
那一夜，村裡所有的狗都變成了啞巴，身體蜷縮成一團，瞳孔放大，似乎看到了什麼可怕的東西一般！
我一夜沒有合眼，我知道這件事情已經不能得到輕易的解決了，從事陰陽行當多年，這是第一次沒有解決雇主的問題，心中很有挫敗感。
我傷感不是因為我沒有救那個孩子，而是為那個孩子有這樣的父母而感到傷感！
我望瞭望父親的房間，他屋裡的燈也是亮了一夜，想必他跟我一樣，也是一夜未眠吧~~
天亮後，趙叔家門口便搭起了靈棚，嗩吶聲，鞭炮聲齊鳴。
趙叔他們兩口子心中憎恨我與父親，所以沒有請我們去主事，而是找了隔壁村的一個陰陽先生。
這陰陽先生還沒走進趙叔的家門，就看見了滔天的煞氣！
他也明白，這是碰見了鬼喊屍，便連連搖頭，勸導他們夫妻二人趕緊想辦法逃命，隨後便頭也不回的離開了。
一家人因為自己的私慾，可以不管親生骨肉的死活，身為一個外人，沒有必要為冥頑不靈的他們拼死累活！
這陰陽先生看的通透，在來的時候他就心生疑惑，這個村子有我們父子二人在此，為何雇主偏偏找上了隔壁村的他？
看到這種場景後，那陰陽先生就嚇破了膽，回家連續做了兩天的法事，希望邪祟不要纏上自己！
「哼，沒人管我管！沒有陰陽先生也能厚葬我兒子！”
趙叔認為隔壁村的陰陽先生是與我家串通一氣，故意做出這種反應來氣他，所以決定，自己的兒子由自己親手安葬！
雖然這不太符合規矩，但又沒有辦法。
人家不願意用我與父親，我們總不能舔著臉找上門去吧？
“要出事~~”
父親見此情景，嘆了一口氣，他垂頭喪氣的走到門外，在家門口貼了休息的告示。
白髮人送黑髮人是很多人都不願意看到的場景，這種感覺讓人肝腸寸斷，尤其是獨生子，更是如此。
而且，這裡面還有很多的學問與禁忌，與平常的下葬還有所不同。
白髮人送黑髮的時候，家中長輩不能穿白衣，要穿素衣；
不能把死者的棺木以及屍體放到家裡，要把遺體放在別處（家門口也行），或直接火化。
一定要做到從速從簡，一個家庭，如果年輕人倒了，那麼這個家庭就失去了頂樑柱，上有老下有小，對一個家庭的打擊是非常大的。
其實一切從簡還有另一種說法，那就是孩子年紀尚小，就離開了人世，心中會有很多的怨恨與不滿，會捨不得離開，更有甚者會產生報復的心理，從而做出不利於 家庭成員或鄰裡的事。
這些說法都是有真實案例的，後文會一一進行贅述，就不在這裡為各位講述了。
繼續回到剛才白髮人送黑髮的問題：
母親是不能送兒子「上山」的。
個別地區的人有一些習俗，人死後，會將棺材抬到高山之上進行安葬，其目的就是讓死者去世後，依舊可以看到人間美麗的風景。
抬棺的過程中，棺木是不被允許落地的，等到繩子在什麼時候斷裂，那個地方就是死者的葬身之地！
所以，上山也可以理解為下葬的意思。
年輕人過世是不能進祖墳的，就算進了，也不能在中間位置，只能在偏僻的角落；
青少年早逝也被認為是先輩前世造孽得到的懲罰，出於對先輩的尊重，對於早逝的人只能說是短命之人，屬於野鬼，不讓其進入自己祖墳，破壞風水。
白髮人送黑髮人的葬禮上，父母要用棍棒敲打晚輩的棺材三下，寓意已經原諒其沒有贍養的不孝之罪，這樣黑髮人方可安心西去。
對於遺孀懷孕的葬禮，在出殯時，遺孀是不可以送殯的，要用9尺紅布，系在遺孀腰間後，將其解下綁在房門上方可，不然胎星衝撞孝星，必 出災星。
先人孕期去世的葬禮，多數母體若懷男胎會自然分娩或流產，有的足月份的男胎還有可能會生還，這就是常說的棺材子（後期會講到）。
多數母體若懷孕女胎會胎死腹中，如若母體死後流產下來的胎兒也已死亡，必須用九尺紅布包裹好，用麻繩繫於胎兒腰間，陪同母體一同火化或下葬，不可 分離。
一般人是不了解這種風俗的，趙叔也不例外，他們兩口子只知道，要盡快將孩子安葬，避免意外發生。
兩口子竟然穿著白衣，跟在送葬隊伍的後面！
其親戚也是如此，這可是犯了天大的忌諱！
On the third night, Uncle Zhao couldn't bear it anymore, so he carried his son directly to my house, saying that the situation was serious.
I looked at the child, and there was only one of the three Yang Fires on his shoulders, and it flickered and could go out at any time!
"Uncle, you are harming your son! Why did you figure it out only now?"
The child is basically a corpse.
In the past three days, the couple took their already weak son to all the hospitals, just to save the child with medical means, so they delayed a lot of precious time.
Seeing that the child was about to die, the couple remembered to pull him to my house!
"Nan'er, uncle kneels down for you, save my son's life, and don't report him!"
Their son was already dying, but they still didn't change their minds.
"Uncle, if your son was killed by someone and the murderer could not be found, what would you do?"
This sentence directly stumped Uncle Zhao.
"If you knew who the murderer was, what would you do?"
I asked again.
"I will make him pay for my son's life!"
When Uncle Zhao said this, he knew that the matter today had come to an end.
My own child is a child, but other people's children are not children?
The dead person's body is still warm, I don't know how sad his family will be!
"I don't care about other people's people, I can't care about them, I just know to take good care of my children!"
My words have been very clear, but Uncle Zhao still can't change his stubborn thoughts.
"Uncle, it's not that I don't help you, you take your child away, and when the time comes to bury him, I will try to make him have a complete body!"
The matter of ghosts shouting corpses is very strange. At that time, I studied it for a long time before I knew how to crack it.
That is, let the perpetrators get the punishment they deserve, and then I will persuade the ghosts who shout corpses, and then strive for a chance to reconcile, and this matter will be solved.
I don't believe there is any other way in the world to resolve ghosts shouting corpses!
It was originally a very simple matter, but they had to make it very complicated for the couple.
I don't understand, whether I didn't make it clear, or they hit the wall and didn't know how to turn!
My father also stood up and tried to persuade the couple to change, but it didn't work.
My father and I were very upset, but there was nothing we could do. The couple really carried the child back!
Before leaving, they said:
"You two are really no good. You will be punished for not saving the dying!"
Until now, they have not realized their mistakes. They don't find problems in themselves, but put all the responsibility on us.
There is an old saying that goes, like father, like son. The reason why his son escaped is that he completely inherited his father's character!
My father and I watched them disappear in the endless night. At that moment, my heart was bleeding, and the voice of the dead ghost came to my ears:
"Thank you~~"
It seems that there is more than one ghost!
Maybe I was too tired and heard it wrong~
The person who died in the hands of the child took Uncle Zhao's child away that night.
In the early morning, the cries of the couple resounded throughout the village.
That night, all the dogs in the village became dumb, curled up into a ball, and their pupils dilated, as if they had seen something terrible!
I didn't close my eyes all night. I knew that this matter could not be easily resolved. After many years of working in the Yin-Yang business, this was the first time that I failed to solve the employer's problem. I felt very frustrated.
I was sad not because I didn't save the child, but because the child had such parents!
I looked at my father's room. The lights in his room were also on all night. I guess he and I were also sleepless all night~~
After dawn, a mourning tent was set up at the door of Uncle Zhao's house, with the sound of suona and firecrackers.
Uncle Zhao and his wife hated me and my father in their hearts, so they didn't ask us to take charge, but found a Yin-Yang master from the next village.
Before this Yin-Yang master walked into Uncle Zhao's house, he saw the monstrous evil spirit!
He also understood that this was a ghost shouting corpse, so he shook his head again and again, persuading the couple to find a way to escape quickly, and then left without looking back.
A family can ignore the life and death of their own flesh and blood because of their own selfish desires. As an outsider, there is no need to work hard for them who are stubborn and recalcitrant!
This Yin Yang Master saw through everything. When he came, he was puzzled. There were two of us in this village, father and son, why did the employer choose him from the next village?
After seeing this scene, the Yin Yang Master was scared and went home to perform rituals for two consecutive days, hoping that the evil spirit would not entangle him!
"Humph, no one cares about me! I can bury my son without a Yin Yang Master!"
Uncle Zhao believed that the Yin Yang Master from the next village was in collusion with my family and deliberately made this reaction to anger him, so he decided to bury his son by himself!
Although this is not in line with the rules, there is no way.
People don't want to use me and my father, we can't just go to their door with a licking face, right?
"Something is going to happen~~"
Seeing this scene, my father sighed, he walked out of the door dejectedly, and posted a notice to rest at the door.
Many people don't want to see the scene of the elderly sending off the young. This feeling is heartbreaking, especially for the only child.
Moreover, there are many knowledge and taboos involved, which are different from the usual burial.
When the elderly send off the young, the elders in the family cannot wear white clothes, but plain clothes;
The coffin and body of the deceased cannot be placed at home, but the body must be placed somewhere else (even at the doorstep), or directly cremated.
It must be done quickly and simply. If a young person falls, then the family loses its pillar. There are old people above and young people below, which is a huge blow to a family.
In fact, there is another way to say that everything should be kept simple, that is, when a child leaves the world at a young age, there will be a lot of resentment and dissatisfaction in his heart, and he will be reluctant to leave. What's more, he will have a revengeful mentality, and thus do things that are not good for family members or neighbors.
These statements are all based on real cases, which will be described one by one in the following text, so I won't tell you here.
Let's go back to the question of the old sending the black:
Mothers cannot send their sons "up the mountain".
People in some areas have some customs. After a person dies, the coffin will be carried to the top of the mountain for burial. The purpose is to allow the deceased to still see the beautiful scenery of the world after death.
During the process of carrying the coffin, the coffin is not allowed to fall to the ground. When the rope breaks, that place is the burial place of the deceased!
Therefore, going up the mountain can also be understood as burying.
Young people who die cannot enter the ancestral tomb. Even if they do, they cannot be in the middle, but in a remote corner;
The early death of teenagers is also considered a punishment for the sins of the ancestors in their previous lives. Out of respect for the ancestors, those who die early can only be said to be short-lived people and wild ghosts, and they are not allowed to enter their ancestral tombs to destroy Feng Shui.
At the funeral of the elderly sending off the young, the parents should knock on the coffin of the younger generation three times with a stick, implying that they have forgiven the unfilial sin of not supporting them, so that the young can go to the west with peace of mind.
For the funeral of a pregnant widow, the widow cannot be sent to the funeral. A 9-foot red cloth should be tied around the waist of the widow, and then it should be untied and tied to the door of the room, otherwise the fetal star will collide with the filial star, and the disaster star will definitely appear.
At the funeral of an ancestor who died during pregnancy, most mothers will give birth naturally or miscarry if they are pregnant with a male fetus. Some full-term male fetuses may survive, which is often called the coffin (which will be discussed later).
Most mothers who are pregnant with a female fetus will die in the womb. If the fetus is aborted after the mother dies, it must be wrapped in a nine-foot red cloth and tied to the fetus' waist with a hemp rope. It must be cremated or buried with the mother and cannot be separated.
Most people do not understand this custom, and Uncle Zhao is no exception. The couple only know that they must bury the child as soon as possible to avoid accidents.
The couple actually wore white clothes and followed the funeral procession!
Their relatives did the same, which was a huge taboo!
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